Sensuality For Lovers

\Sen`su*al”i*ty\, n. [CF. F. sensualit[‘e], L. sensualitas sensibility, capacity for sensation.] The quality or state of being sensual; devotedness to the gratification of the bodily appetites; free indulgence in carnal or sensual pleasures; luxuriousness; voluptuousness; lewdness.

We crave it, yet few men seem to be able to provide it or even, truly know what it is. We are left yearning and wondering “why?”  But do men want it as well? Do they what their senses tantalized.

Sensuality works on many levels, but most of all, it works the five basic senses: sight, hearing, touch, smell, and taste. If you incorporate all of these into any atmosphere, you create a state for carnal and sensual pleasures.

Candle Light
Nothing works better than seducing your lover with candle light and when the candles are low, your sense of sight is enhanced. By dimming the lights, setting a romantic atmosphere, and having some soft music playing in the background, the evening is set for an evening of sensual pleasure.

Massage
Women love a man who can use their hands and vice versa. An erotic massage is a start to an evening of wonderful surprises. Not only does a massage relax you, but it is an intimate act that a couple can do with each other before sex. Use essential oils and soft music to set the mood and then start it off with a neck and shoulder rub. Setting this scene can lead to a night of exotic sex.

Outdoor Picnic
A picnic is nothing more than lunch outside, but if you change the situation and the two of you are alone and sitting on the grass, it can be seen as more romantic and sensual. Introduce some sensual foods and you are set. Eat suggestively, accentuating eat bite. You get the picture, I know you have seen it in the movies!

Sunset and Sunrise
Watching the sun rise in the morning or the sun set in the evening is a mystical event that many couples love to experience. The two of you talking and sitting down as the sky changes colors is very romantic and sensual.

Fireplace
The crackling of the fire and the two of you cuddling conjures images of sex and seduction. Add a fur rug into the equation and you are set. If you don’t have a fireplace try going camping and building a campfire where the two of you can spend some alone-time together.

Sensual Travel
When you travel, you are free from the worries from home, the stress of working, and the other distractions that may come up. When traveling, the change of scenery can be very sensual, but the fact that you have had sex in a different locations makes it erotic!

Sensual Foods
Many people use sensual foods to build passion and desire. Foods such as chocolate, whipped cream, and strawberries can get your partner in the mood. Try other foods that are delectable and rich in flavor to satisfy your partner. Fruits, liquors, and honey are some examples.

Rivers, Lakes, and Oceans
The water and the outdoors bring out the animal in all of us and perhaps it gives you a good excuse to get semi-naked with that special guy.

Moonlit Walk
A walk in the evening allows you to look at the moon and the stars. You can hold each other close and talk together. Mix in a moonlit walk with sitting by a river or lake and you are set for an intimate interlude.

Being Secluded
All the above situations concentrate on a couple being alone. We love spending “alone-time” with our partners. Being secluded as a couple allows for focus on time together, without the distraction of family and friends. It usually starts with deep romantic conversation, then kissing, but moves on to bigger and better things.

Being in a long term relationship is no excuse to take your partner for granted.  If we could all be a little romantic every day, I think this world would be a much better place.

Happy New Year!