How to Give a Lap Dance

The internet is a lot of fun: you can find anything from cats playing pianos to celebrity Snapchats about that Hollywood life. Furthermore, you can also use it to learn a thing or two. For example, how to cook, how to grow indoor plants, or how to give a lap dance.

Speaking of which, we’ve decided to share with our readers a few tips on how to be the best lap dancer you can possibly be without having to become a stripper. Without further ado, let us begin.

Lap Dance – Relax and Get Comfortable

Since lap dancing is all about relaxing, taking it easy and getting aroused at the same time, it’s important that both the giver and the receiver of the lap dance are in the same state where they’re comfortable and without a care in the world.

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Why is this so important? Well, while the part about the receiver being relaxed is pretty self-explanatory, it’s also crucial that you don’t feel any pressure and that you’re comfortable with that’s happening. Only when you reach this state will you be able not only to give a good performance, but also to have fun while doing it.

Another reason why you should try to feel good while giving a lap dance lies in the fact that tension and insecurity shows in body language. If your mind is tense, your body will be as well, which means it’s going to be very difficult to provide your significant other with a sexy lap dance
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Choose your Weapons

The other great aspect of a great lap dance lies in the choice of music, clothing and the type of lap dance you will do.

Let’s start with music. You can either create a playlist or pick one seductive song that lasts long enough for you to do your performance but that’s not so long that both you and your partner get bored. Usher’s “Climax” and “Thinking About You” by Frank Ocean are good places to start when it comes to lap dance music.

Then, we have clothing. Some women prefer being fully clothed, other will pick sexy lingerie or even roleplaying costumes, while there are girls out there who like to wear (next to) nothing while giving a lap dance. It all comes down to what you’re comfortable with and what your S.O. finds sexy – and find a compromise between these two.

Finally, you need to figure out which type of lap dance you want to do. Once again, this largely depends on what you feel good about, but keep in mind that there are two main types of lap dancing: seductive and aggressive.

A seductive lap dance is what most of us have already seen – it’s slow and it’s hot, but it takes practice. On the other hand, we have the aggressive lap dance, which place you in total control while your partner can do nothing but watch (seriously, he shouldn’t even move), but this is only recommended for experienced lap dancers.

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