Whether you just want to manually please your man or you’re in a lonely wife hookup scenario with a guy you met online, giving a good hand job is sometimes all it takes to drive a man crazy (in a positive way). While many girls think it’s no big deal, this skill actually takes some practice and know-how if you really want to make his head spin. That why today we wanted to get back to the basics with some tips on how to give a great hand job.
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Start The Hand Job Off Slow

It’s doesn’t really matter if the hand job you’re about to give is part of the foreplay or if it’s the sexual act in itself – either way, it’s not something men ignore and it’s definitely not something they would gladly skip.

First off, make sure you’re in the right position. You can lie next to your guy if you’re not planning on doing this for too long or you can mount his thighs for a better grip and more control over what you’re doing. Your next step should be applying some lube, as it makes your job much easier and increases the pleasure your man is about to feel. Or, you know, you can leave it dry, if that’s what he’s into.

The most basic hand job revolves around grasping the penis gently, but firmly, with your fingers. Move your fist up and down the shaft in a steady and slow manner to start things off.

Variety Is Key

If you’re completely clueless as to what more you can do, simply continue with the aforementioned motion until your man climaxes. It’ll take some time, but it’s a good place to start. On the other hand, those of you with a little more ambition can spice things up a bit in order to make your boyfriend’s or husband’s eyes roll so that he can look at the back of his head.

The best way to add variety to the hand job is to mix your speed and pressure. Speed up a bit and then slow down again, grab his member tightly for a couple of strokes only to release your grip a bit right after – the more you mix it up, the closer you’ll get to finding that sweet spot.

Now, here’s the point where your other hand comes into play. Your first option is to make your other hand do whatever your busy hand is already doing. Bring one hand down to the base of his shaft and stroke from there while the other gently massages the skin closer to his glans.

Finally, once your guy is nearing his orgasm, it’s time to bring out the big guns. The ultimate pleasure-giving technique that can be included in a hand job looks something like this: place one hand on his penis and the other on his scrotum. Simultaneously, stroke the shaft and fondle the testicles, and you’ll be hearing moans in a matter of milliseconds.