Top Kinky Resources To Add Pizzazz To Your Sex Life

Top Kinky Resources To Add Pizzazz To Your Sex Life

What is considered ‘normal’ sex has evolved over the years, and what was once considered risque kinky and far out fun is now often what we call ‘vanilla’ aka boring sex.

This confusion combined with a sometimes fear of mentioning to ones spouse or partner that they need a little bit of extra spice in the bedroom, trying new things, new positions, toys, roleplay, etc, will lead to the dissolution of their marriage, not realizing that maybe their spouse or partner feels the same way. Unfortunately this unwillingness to discuss going in a kinkier direction often leads to infidelity, or just plain stagnation of a relationship.

Fortunately nowadays there are a ton of resources online to help with implementing new things in the bedroom, and just discovering what there is in the wide world of sex that people can experiment with, adding that extra dazzle to their orgasmic intimacies. Many of these resources are unfortunately click-bait but here we are going to list some that are highly recommended to help discovering ways to expand our intimate boundaries.

Femdom Magazine – Discover the beauty of Dominant Women (femdoming.com) 

Twitter – slave selection (@SlaveSelection) / Twitter 

One of the more common realms that people peek into and try when getting some extra zing in their zang is fantasy and roleplay, and one of the more common branches of this is Femdom Roleplay where women get to pretend that they are actually in charge for once (forgive my sexist joke, but hey it’s a kink, come spank me). 

Femdoming.com has a multitude of resources ranging from stories to entertain, titillate and tutor, as well as dating forums where you can discuss the femdom fun that intrigues you and your partner. Instead of a formal and uninteresting approach that other resources have used, this site includes explicit videos demonstrating different forms of bondage and mild punishments.

Definitely one of the go-to places to check out the fantasy femdom aspects, or even true to your inner desire femdom aspects of roleplay and kink. 

Swinger Lifestyle | Real Swingers | Stories & Lifestyle Articles 

Twitter – https://twitter.com/Swingerlifestyl/ 

Besides roleplay and fantasies, more of which we’ll go into later, a big and common change that people make to initiate adding that ‘something extra’ is adding somebody extra. Sexual swinging has been a turn-on for thousands of years. You can see it in the movie Caligula and, depending on what neighborhood you live in, you can see it down the street.

Swinger lifestyle offers resources in both information and erotic swinging stories to make you swoon. The range of information here is phenomenal stretching from stories to a dictionary making you hip with all the groovy swinger terms; a community to discuss your sexual explorations and freedoms and amazingly even a drink menu suggesting what drinks to make for your far-out frolicking.

So when you’re looking to add an extra person or people, or check out that kinky party down the street where you hear the screams of ecstasy coming out your neighbors window, here is one of the best places to advise you how to do so, and what to do when you get there so you aren’t a square. 

BDSMCafe.com – Free BDSM Stories and Information 

Twitter – Wasteland Studios (@wastelandmovies) / Twitter 

If you and or your partner are completely unsure what exactly your kinky desires are, here is a resource for you to explore. With a cornucopia of kinky topics, a store, stories both true and fiction that are both arousing and inspiring, movies, games, cams, a forum to discuss your funky fun and an overall view of this alternative lifestyle, to discover how much it appeals to you.

This site has proven its integrity through its longevity and steady follower account as well as being up-to-date and filled with refreshing information including a beginner’s guide to BDSM taking into account the fact that seekers of information may find things daunting and even a little bit scary, unless explained to them. 

So when you’re looking for a place to find the information that your intimate sex life is lacking, but don’t know what to look for, this is definitely a place to check out with its wide range of topics and even the convenient and actually well-priced add-on store to get you the gear you want.

https://www.sugarbutch.net/

Twitter – https://twitter.com/MrSexsmith/

Due to a long history of stereotyping, as well as cultural rejection, the amount of gay and lesbian resources with the goal of helping their relationships add something extra to the bedroom, or whatever play area is being used, is severely lacking, even on such a wide all encompassing tool as the Internet. 

Here at Sugar Butch there is a wide variety of kinky resources as well as links to Twitter, Instagram, and Facebook, focusing mostly on the dominant and submissive lifestyle and/or fantasy domination and submission. 

One of the biggest appeals here is not so much the blog itself as the Twitter, Instagram and Facebook accounts because unlike many similar resources these appear to be constantly updated and responded to, which is a big draw because personally I hate going to social media resources and finding that nobody has been active there in a year or more.

https://www.raindegrey.com/

Twitter – Rain DeGrey 🐀 (@raindegrey) / Twitter 

Coming with an amazing bag of life experiences to draw from, ranging from actress and model, to real life wrestler and a desire to help people achieve lives of pleasure, Rain de Grey has developed her website with a range of helpful aids and resources.

With customized classes as well as a variety of written essays to assist people in finding and unleashing that extra little bit of kinky fun inside us all. It is a place that people can go to and with experienced help be led on a road, or assisted further on a road sure to enhance theirs and their partners pleasure, both in and out of the bedroom.

One thing I really like about this site beyond the fact that they are also accessible through their active Twitter and Facebook accounts is the amount of personalized assistance available for sexual and relationship growth.

These sites and the connected resources should give you a view into some of the extra spices you can add to your sexual lives, as well as just to improve your relationships. Remember even good things can stagnate if they do not evolve, so keep that zing in your zang, and that wing in your wang, and explore all the good things that the sexual life has to offer.