How To Have Better Intimate Moments With Your Partner

Intimacy in a relationship isn’t all about sex, although that does play a part. What it really means is that you can get close to someone both physically and emotionally, and build a strong bond because of that closeness. However, we’re often tired – even exhausted – and so busy with ‘important’ things in life that this intimacy can quickly disappear from even the best relationships. With that in mind, here are some ways to have better intimate moments with your partner to help you reconnect. 

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Go With The Flow

One of the problems when it comes to intimacy is that we think of sex and connections as something that can be learned. We might watch videos or read instructional articles, and then copy those ideas and moves in bed. Unfortunately, this can actually lead to less intimacy, since you’re focusing so much on what you’re doing, you’re forgetting your partner altogether. 

Instead, it’s better just to do what you feel. Get into bed together and see what happens, with no preconceived ideas or any ‘must-do’ lists in your head. Just go with the flow and follow where your desire takes you. As long as you and your partner are happy to let the other know what does and doesn’t work, this is an ideal way to get closer and enjoy sex even more. 


Try Something New

One of the issues with a long-term relationship is that over time sex becomes boring. There’s no need to be ashamed of this – it happens to pretty much everyone. Even brand-new relationships can have issues in this area, after all, both partners will be using ideas they had with previous partners, so it’s hardly brand new and exciting. wet

That’s why if you want to bring more intimacy into your relationship, you should try new things. That might mean incorporating toys into your sex life – take a look at what’s on offer at and you’ll see what kind of fun you could be having, for example. It might mean trying new positions or having sex somewhere other than the bedroom. It might mean using your fantasies or dressing up or even some light (or not so light) bondage. If you don’t enjoy what you’re doing, try something else. If you do enjoy it, don’t rest there – keep trying new things. 

Touch Each Other

We’re no longer talking about sex. When we say you need to touch each other to provide more intimacy in your relationship, we mean outside of the bedroom (or wherever it is you like to make love). We mean holding hands, giving one another a kiss, and generally being close to one another throughout the day. 

The closer you can be with someone physically, the stronger your bond will be, and the more intimate your lives will be together. This kind of contact will not only strengthen your relationship, but it will make you feel good too, because it releases serotonin into the blood stream. You’ll feel glad to be with your partner and your outlook on life will become more positive as a bonus effect of being generally more intimate. 

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