Rekindle That Spark

Do you remember those moments when you were young, on one of your first dates?

Waiting for your hand to brush up against her or him, for an opportunity for your legs to subtly press against each other. Your whole body would shiver at that little touch, full of curiosity and expectation about what would come next.

Early sex in any relationship is exciting, everything feels like an adventure.

Wouldn’t it be great to be able to have that kind of excitement with your partner even after years and years together?

Let’s try to recreate some of those deliciously memorable experiences.

1. Go on dates with the intention of getting aroused in public. It can be somewhere romantic like the beach but not necessarily. You can go to a movie theatre, coffee shop or bar. Put away the worries of the day and get absorbed in each other. Remember, light innocent caresses can go along way !
2. Although not everyone feels comfortable having an intense make-out session in public, I have always found it incredibly erotic. Let your hands wander a little further than usual. Explore each other without being too obvious to everyone around you. Getting busy without people around you knowing can be a terrific turn on. You might not even need #3 by the time you get home!
3. But just in case you do, keep some clothes on for a little while, at least take your time getting them off. In particular, wearing your underwear can heat up your sex session. It can bring a lot of pleasure, teasing and playing through the fabric. This will make things that much more exciting when the panties come off.

Naturally add your own flavors to the experience and most of all get ready to have some fun!

By Lisa Marie at The Alexander Institute www.lovingsex.com