Oral Play for Women

There’s something that I have come to realize over the course of time. A feature that will make a woman stay with a man, even if he is no good for her, or even if he gets violent sometimes, is if he will go down on her with no expectations. Think about it ladies, how many of you can honestly say that you have had a man go down on you without expecting anything, not even a blowjob, in return? Is it that they really do expect something in return or that perhaps we feel as though we owe it to them to return the favor. Let’s say that we feel as though we owe it to them. If that is the case then why do so many of us get down on our hands and knees to give them blowjobs and not feel the need for them to return the favor? My man will go down on me randomly. He loves making me squirm and moan as he is down there, but although he says that he doesn’t want anything in return, I always feel as though I should take care of his desires right afterwards. And let’s be honest, how many of us don’t feel that very same need after we have been taken care of ‘down there’?

So what I came to realize with a lot of my friends is that they would stay with these no good men for reasons unknown to me. Only later on did I figure out what all of these bad relationships had in common. They all involved men who would go down on their partners all the time and trully not want anything in return. Is this such a rare thing that when we find a man like this, it is hard to let him go regardless if he is really no good for us? Having been there myself, I would have to say yes. Maybe the men reading this should try to be more loving with their partners,  I guarantee it will make your relationship better.

If you cannot give oral pleasure to your loved one without getting an erection, then maybe go to the bathroom and pleasure yourself before you decide to give her a treat. Because nothing makes us fee more obliged to return the favor than a rock hard cock pressing against us.