There are such things as sexual compatibility and so-called sexual temperament which are almost impossible to alter. Hence the first bad habit: too short foreplay.
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Even if your partner is also burning with passion, you still shouldn’t ignore such aspect as foreplay. It’s like a delicious appetizer before an exquisite dinner. The brighter and more emotional foreplay is, the more pleasure sex brings.
Dirty sex. Literally
When it comes to sex, a lot of people still ignore personal hygiene. Sweat and dirt can be sexy in the right context, especially if you’re into that aspect of sex, but it also creates an ideal breeding ground for bacteria. No one wants to give their partner an infection because they didn’t get a chance to shower. So, no matter how banal it sounds, take a shower before the sex, or even better, make it part of the foreplay.
Where’s your imagination?
Many couples break up because of the monotony in bed. Often, both partners find one or two comfortable positions and stop at this. Intimacy deepens with communication. Communicating with each other about desires and fantasies not only fosters intimacy but can bring some new excitement into the bedroom. Whether you fantasize about
beautiful Russian ladies or cosplay as robots, bringing your
fantasy to life can be titillating. Always remember that when you are trying out new things to check in with your partner to make sure that they are ok with everything. People can be interested in things they’ve only fantasized about, but sometimes trying it in real life can be disappointing or even push boundaries. There are other ways to explore sexuality, such as watching it happen in porn, or reading an erotic story about it.
Stop getting lost in your head
Sex is not the best time to revisit your daily routine. When you’re trying to remember if you closed the garage door, your partner can tell what you’re not present in the moment. Take this opportunity to turn your brain off, and stop replaying the daily grind. You can focus on your pleasure at this moment! Sex is a pleasure. Relax and get into it.
Take matters into your hands
Balance is the number one condition of harmonious relationships. One way to do that is to kiss and touch when they least expect it. Don’t be shy to whisper tender words in their ear. Do what you can to arouse their passion and awaken the imagination. Your ideas and efforts will be appreciated.