When I Learned How to Orgasm

By Lisa Marie from lovingsex.com

It’s not that I did not know how to orgasm … but I didn’t. I was blessed to have learned this particular lesson relatively early in life.

Like many other women I am sure, I experienced some of my early orgasms masturbating, but they were quick and to the point. Probably because I was so afraid of getting caught. Or they were during partner sex, but they were quick as well. I always looked forward so to sex, and then when I actually engaged in sexual activity I rushed through it blindly like a trained racehorse.

I never thought of suntan lotion and a sandy towel on the beach as very sexy but they sure did the job that day. He began drizzling the lotion on my back and massaging me with long sensuous strokes. His hands were warm and soft, his rhythm was perfect. I was feeling more and more aroused as he stroked the sides of my body his hands lingered on my breasts, at first brushing softly, then slowly working towards my nipples. He reached way down my abdomen around my hips and buttocks and then up my back again. It was so almost there I could barely hold back.

Then he stopped.

He let me relax and massaged my scalp….I felt as though my hips were still pumping with excitement to the rhythm he had set for them. Just when their motion began to subside he began again. He ran his hands up and down my arms, legs, abdomen and breasts and covered me partially with a towel in case someone would happen to walk by. I can’t deny that being in a semi-public place added to the thrill.

His hands were inside my bikini now, moving in rhythmic circles faster and faster while he devoured my nipples.

I was so close. And then he slowed down, a lot. My breathing returned to its regular pace and my muscles relaxed. I felt all tingly and confused (in such a good way) And just as I began to think it was over, as though he had some intricate algorithm of my body’s state of arousal, he began stimulating me again with increased the pace and pressure … I was panting and shaking but I had not yet come.

He did this another couple of times if I remember correctly, bringing my right to the edge but not quite over. When I finally orgasmed it was exquisite. It was the culmination of of the “almost  but not quite”, bigger, longer and better than I could have ever imagined.

I named it the “Ascenda-Gasm” and I can’t recommend it enough.

He set the bar high that day in the orgasm department, lucky for me.

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