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Cunnilungus – 8 Things Men Wish they Knew before Ever Going Down on a Woman

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Whether you’re into going out and finding a guy or you prefer cowboy dating, you and all other women in the world just a man who knows what he’s doing when he goes “downtown.” Similarly, there are many men out there who wish they had known certain things prior to eating out a girl for the first time, which is exactly what we wanted to talk about today.

Oral sex isn’t exactly a new invention, yet somehow, a lot of guys still don’t have the slightest idea as to how to satisfy a woman with their mouth and tongue. In that name, let’s take a look at the 8 things men which they knew before ever going down on a woman.

  1. Focusing on Her

Oral sex is about one thing and one thing only – satisfying the receiver. And since men are on the giving side here, it’s of utmost importance that they focus 100% on making the girl feel good.

  1. Confidence is Key

Even if they don’t know the best way to make you come while going down of you, it’s much better if they at least pretend like they know what they’re doing. The rest “comes” on its own later on.

  1. Things Change

Just because they’ve figured out that their girl likes something, it doesn’t mean that she will like it every time. Erogenous zones aren’t always a constant, which also applies to giving women oral sex.

  1. More than One Way

Sadly, most guys get their sex education from porn, which is why most of the unexperienced ones believe that there is only one way to eat out a lady. When they all should know is – you’ve guessed it – that there are about a million ways to make a girl happy while going down on her.

  1. They don’t have to Do it

Sure, oral sex is great and most women love it, however, that doesn’t mean that guys have to do it just because they girl likes it. Both partners should be free to choose what they want or don’t want to do during sex.

  1. Just Relax

Oral sex isn’t supposed to be a scene from a “Mission: Impossible” movie. There’s no need for tension, no need to rush it, no need to complete an assignment. Just relax and go with the flow, guys.
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  1. They don’t have to be Good at it

Seeing as no one is born with the knowledge on how to be good at things, it’s only natural that not all guys excel at eating women out. What they don’t understand is that they don’t have to be good at it – there are many other ways one can satisfy a woman.

  1. Ask First, Lick Later

Yup, that’s right. Of all the things men don’t do before going down on you, actually asking what you like being done to you might be the most important one. Good sex requires, nay, demands good communication, which is exactly why inquiring about a girl’s oral sex likes and dislikes might just be key to being good at eating out women.

Ashley Rosemont

Ashley Rosemont is a feature columnist for Sssh.com, the web’s original porn site for women by women. She is a Renaissance woman of many talents, but tries to remain humble in the face of all the curveballs life throws her way. She has been a professional writer for over two decades, and specializes in writing on media, culture, health and sexuality.
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Written by Ashley Rosemont

Ashley Rosemont

Ashley Rosemont is a feature columnist for Sssh.com, the web’s original porn site for women by women. She is a Renaissance woman of many talents, but tries to remain humble in the face of all the curveballs life throws her way. She has been a professional writer for over two decades, and specializes in writing on media, culture, health and sexuality.

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