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5 Ways To Keep The Erotic Spark In Your Relationship

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Back in the day, long-term relationship and marriages were almost nothing more than political and practical structures of society. Today, however, marriage is all about love and equality. Don’t get us wrong, this is a good thing, but being promised to someone until the rest of your life might negatively affect the passion inside of the relationship. It doesn’t matter if you’re into BBW singles, businessmen, or free-spirited artists, you need to know how to keep the fire alive in our union. Therefore, here are the 5 ways you can achieve exactly that.

Work On Your Sexual Vocabulary

If you want to have a great connection with your partner in bed, you need to work on your basic communication. Sex can be an awkward thing, especially if you don’t know how to express your desires and fantasies. This is exactly why you need to improve your sexual vocabulary. Expressing yourself clearly will allow you to enjoy passionate moments with your significant other without distractions and lack of confidence. Know what you want and how to ask for it!

Never Stop Seducing Each Other

This is, without a doubt, one of the best ways to keep the erotic spark in your relationship or marriage. Sadly, people nowadays think that once they seduce and “claim” their partner, they don’t have to work hard to keep them. This, of course, is completely wrong. Frist of all, you have to understand that you don’t own your partner. Secondly, you have to be aware that if you don’t try hard enough, your partner might leave you eventually. Therefore, in order to prevent such an awful scenario and keep the passion alive in your relationship, you must never stop seducing your significant other. Don’t assume that they’re obligated to have sex with you just because you’re together. No, you must try to seduce them like you did the very first time you slept together.

Increase Desire By Keeping A Healthy Distance

The constant presence of your partner is not good for the sexual desire in the relationship. Don’t get us wrong, we’re not saying that you should not see your partner regularly, you should, but you also need to keep a healthy distance in order to create desire and longing. These feelings will definitely spice things up in your bedroom.

Remain Mysterious And Surprise Your Partner

Keeping secrets from your partner is not a good idea per se, but being somewhat mysterious will definitely do wonders for your sex life. Knowing literally everything about each other can be a big turn off, so make sure to keep some things for yourself. We’re not saying that you should lie to your partner, just find a way to surprise them from time to time.

Be Spontaneous In The Bedroom

Since we’re talking about surprising your partner, we should also say that spontaneity is one of the crucial aspects of a successful and fulfilling sexual relationship. Your lovemaking sessions must not look like they’re scripted. You need to improvise, introduce some new moves and positions every once in a while. Feel free to succumb to passion and don’t think about your next move. Spontaneity will preserve the fire in your bed.

 

Ashley Rosemont

Ashley Rosemont is a feature columnist for Sssh.com, the web’s original porn site for women by women. She is a Renaissance woman of many talents, but tries to remain humble in the face of all the curveballs life throws her way. She has been a professional writer for over two decades, and specializes in writing on media, culture, health and sexuality.
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Ashley Rosemont

Written by Ashley Rosemont

Ashley Rosemont is a feature columnist for Sssh.com, the web’s original porn site for women by women. She is a Renaissance woman of many talents, but tries to remain humble in the face of all the curveballs life throws her way. She has been a professional writer for over two decades, and specializes in writing on media, culture, health and sexuality.

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